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Networking Still Matters, But Not the Way We’ve Been Doing It

For many women, the word networking brings up tension.


Forced smiles.
Small talk that goes nowhere.
Rooms where you feel invisible—or worse, like you have to perform.

And so we opt out.

We tell ourselves we’ll connect “later,” when we’re more confident, more established, or have the right words.

But here’s the truth:
You don’t find your voice after you’re confident.
You find it by using it.

Connection doesn’t come from collecting contacts.
It comes from being seen, heard, and met—right where you are.

That’s why networking still matters.
And it’s why we need to do it differently.

Why So Many Women Hold Back in Networking Spaces

Women don’t avoid networking because they don’t care about connection.

They avoid it because:

  • They don’t want to pitch themselves
  • They don’t want to interrupt or take up space
  • They’re tired of being talked at
  • They’ve learned to stay quiet instead of standing out

Speaking up in rooms—especially unfamiliar ones—is a skill.
And like any skill, it gets stronger with practice.

But most networking environments don’t allow for practice.
They reward the loudest voice, not the bravest one.

The Power of Practicing Your Voice in Community

When women are given a safe, supportive space to speak—something shifts.

They stop rehearsing in their head.
They stop apologizing for their ideas.
They stop waiting for permission.
They begin to trust themselves.

That’s the kind of networking that creates momentum—not just connections.

A Different Kind of Virtual Networking

The Speak Up Women Monthly Virtual Networking was created for women who want connection without performance.

This isn’t speed networking.
There’s no pitching.
No pressure to impress.

Instead, it’s a guided, welcoming space where:

  • You’re invited to speak at your comfort level
  • Conversations are intentional and meaningful
  • Every voice matters—not just the loudest one

It’s not about showing up perfectly.
It’s about showing up honestly.

Because every time you speak in a supportive room, you remind yourself:
My voice belongs here.

If you’re looking for a place to connect without pressure, to practice using your voice in a supportive environment, and to be part of conversations that actually matter, you’re invited to join us at the Speak Up Women Monthly Virtual Networking.


It’s a welcoming space to show up as you are, strengthen your confidence, and take one more step from holding back to being heard—together.

 

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